Section outline

  • Domestic abuse is an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening, degrading and violent behaviour, including sexual violence.

    Domestic abuse can be financial, emotional, psychological, sexual or physical.

    It can be perpetrated by an intimate partner but also by others in the home including parents or parents-in-law, children or siblings.

    QMUL Advice and Counselling Domestic Abuse page

    • Women's Aid is a grassroots federation working together to provide life-saving services and
      build a future where domestic violence is not tolerated.

      w: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/

      women's aid logo


      A couple of years ago, Women's Aid and Cosmopolitan surveyed women about their experiences of abuse. They found that 2/3 of women who said they had not experienced abuse did not recognise red flag behaviours that suggested they had.

      Cosmopolitan survey of abuse - red flags screenshot

    • Galop is the UK’s only specialist LGBT+ anti-violence charity.

      They provide advice, support and advocacy to people who have experienced hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence.

      Galop is an independent organisation and their services are confidential and free.

      w: Galop - the LGBT+ anti-abuse charity


    • Oxford University project: Women speak out about experiences of domestic violence and abuse to help others.

      This project involved recording interviews with many women about their experiences of physical, emotional, sexual and psychological abuse.

      Someone close to me found these very helpful to understand that she was in an abusive relationship.

      w: https://www.phc.ox.ac.uk/news/women-speak-out-about-experiences-of-domestic-violence-and-abuse-to-help-others

      university of oxford logo

    • Bright Sky App

      If you have any doubts about whether you or someone you know are in an abusive relationship please download this app and explore.

      W: https://www.hestia.org/brightsky

      Bright sky app

    • Karma Nirvana

      • Are you being PRESSURED to get married against your will?
      • Do you fear to bring SHAME & dishonour on your family?
      • Have you been emotionally manipulated or physically ABUSED?
      • Are you being told to get married because of your RELIGION?
      • Do you worry about being DISOWNED?

      w: https://karmanirvana.org.uk/help/